I have recently received this question:

Hello Dr. Hawkes, I found your article by accident and found these forums.

The problem is that no matter what I do, with my wife, everything is wrong. I do the dishes, and there is soap. I try to finish work early, and I didn’t tell her. Every time I do things meant to be nice for her, she doesn’t aprecciate them and instead ends up in a big argument, where she screams and yells. I can’d do things right because I am not careful, I don’t pay attention.